Buying a House – Part 1: Should you buy a home?

Hello lovelies! I hope everyone is enjoying 2017 so far and that January is the start of a wonderful productive year (I know it’s been that way from my side at least!)

So 2017 has started off with a bang for Labeeq and myself as we are currently in the process of buying our first house (*happy dances to all the music*).

While this may not seem like much of a feat, being Millennials, aged 24 and 27, it’s a pretty big deal, not only in South Africa, but as a young Muslim couple as well.

A little background for you; we got married a year and 10 months ago and have since rented (for 7 months), stayed with my in-laws until we could find a smaller place of our own (3 months) and have since been renting (11 months).

While I don’t have a problem with renting, We both wanted a place to call our own, with walls we could paint, art we could hang and a little garden for Cinnamon to roam free (she’s been acting so weird – like a cat that’s never seen grass in her life, rolling about all over it O.o)

We found an almost home last year, but there was a huge problem with subdividing the property (D O N T go that route! Unless you have the time, money and strength.) It was a tedious, tiring and a pointless process – in the end we didn’t get the house and started from scratch.

We started looking at other areas, went to quite a few viewings but nothing was within our budget OR fit our requirements.

We were actually viewing another property when I saw the ‘For Sale’ sign outside our soon to be home.

Made contact with the agent and boom! Here we are today.

One of the most important questions to ask yourself is; should you buy a home? Are you ready?

We are in a place where we can afford to (financially) and we don’t have any dependents as yet, so the time for us was now.

Remember to sit down with your partner and make a decision that’s best for both of you (or you and the kids).

I told Labeeq that the next move we make has to be into our own home (I’ve moved 3 times since we got married!!!!) – This was our next step together and I am really happy to be doing this with the love of my life!

How are you finding the housing market in South Africa?

Check our Part 2 here: Getting your foot in the door

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    1. Alhamdulilah! I am really happy that you did – it really is so frustrating, tiring and just makes you want to give up… Kudos to us for sticking through!!!

  1. Alhamdulilah, these little struggles and achievements to reach your life’s milestones will keep you guys together. The warmth in your house will bring warmth in your hearts. The obstacles in life will show perseverance and dedication. May Allah bless you abundantly in all your endeavours! Ameen!

    1. Shukran Aunty Raya! It is very exciting for us and we are so happy to have amazing family and friends supporting and encouraging us.

  2. Slamat to you two . Algamdoellilah. May Allah SWT grant you much happiness in your new house. Houses for millennials and anyone these days are so expensive. Lots of patience and support required. Dont hurry into filling it, take your time. Insha-Allah

    1. Shukran mommy – you always know what to say 🙂 We are happy with a home with just us two and cinnamon to fill it 😀

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